...Maybe not everyone's business, but...

So I haven't said anything publicly yet, but I can't hold it in anymore.

I found out recently that Doug, my best friend/roommate for the last 4 years, has been sleeping with my now ex-girlfriend of 7 months, Jen Bye. We went on a break from our relationship on Sept. 12, but both agreed verbally that we would be getting back together, just needed to figure out some personal shit first. I had to find out the hard way. First I noticed that Doug hadn't stayed a night at home for about 3 weeks after we went on a break, then I caught them together at the Carlin and I confronted them seperatly. First asked her if she knew where Doug had been staying for the past 3 weeks before that and she lied saying she had no idea. Then, she went to the restroom and I asked him the same question. He came partially clean at that time but told me that he had been staying with her but it didn't start til after we were on the break. Then I found out last night that, he lied about that and that he confessed to another mutual friend that they had slept together while we were still dating. Now he's moving in with her and as a result, I refuse to speak with either of them.

I want everyone reading this to know that I was over that fact that it happened by about the next day. The main reason I'm putting this out there is that I want everyone to know that if Doug is willing to disrespect and lie and hide something like this to one of his best friends for 3 weeks, it shows what kind of character he has and I don't want anything like this to happen to anyone else on here when she gets bored with him, dumps him, kicks him out, and he comes crawling back to what he called friends that he so easily threw away, because this isn't the first time that he has done this. I know for a fact that he has pulled this same shit with at 2 other people on THIS forum, and I know one of them knows but not sure about the other.

There are obviously more details and if you care and want to know, PLEASE, don't hesitate to ask.

Its sad how people you consider good friends, will stab you in the back to get a piece of ass. Wouldnt bother me if they got hit by a bus. Dont worry, wether its next week, or a few years from now, they will get whats coming to them

Agreed

I dont really think this should be public information. Really, this isn't "Jersey Shore" and to air your dirty laundry on here is only asking for things to escalate. Yeah it sucks, but its how life goes sometimes, go bang her sister/mom/best friend and call it even.

You know the night you found out and we talked I told you the odds of them screwing around long before it came out was very possible. I hate it when I am right sometimes.

I dont care who you are, things like this should not ever happen.

You know how I feel about this JD, I am 100% on your side.

Ok, before anyone gets the wrong idea here, I want to reiterate that I'm not out to sabotage any other friendships over this...yes, its bullshit drama. I will not disagree with that at all but I've heard rumors and this is to clear them up and to let everyone who cares know that Doug and I are no longer friends and that if you are still friends with him, just to watch out cause I would not wish this kind of shit on anyone.

Sorry to hear about this...but definitely good to know...as I do not know everyone on the forum...

I think it is good that this is finally out. I didnt really feel like telling anyone as I figured it was kind of personal and it is nice for those that were hearing the rumors.

Why one would do this to a good friend just eludes me.

thats so meessed up man i dont know what i would do if that happend to me. that just makes me want to drop kick him even if i dont know you haha!

With friends like that. You don't need enemies.

Anyone have a girlfriend I can sleep with?

(BIRD is mad about this comment)

sorry my x wife just moved away

Don't even think about it Michael.......

whats a girlfriend?

Sorry to hear about it. Send a pic of her to everyone in your phone with a brief explenation of what happened and ask them to pass it along.

post nudes !!!!!

It crossed my mind but I'm trying to be a bigger man than that and I believe the forum rules say no nudity....

then we need a NSFW section

nudes is what anonib is for lol I think everyone knows about that one

The forum doesn't say anything about nudity in PMs.....

nude pms , mm oh the possibilities

GSUS that sucks. S2ki has a pretty sweet ex-girlfriends pic's thread, and someone even agreed to host the non-S2ki-approved images

I know pretty much everyone else on here knows each other, but who is Doug, and what does he drive?

Blue 2000 2.5rs w/ wrx swap

Just send the pics to my hotmail account.

You guys are well aware that he is probably browsing the forum/this thread still, and if she finds out there are pics sent to/from anyone there could be severe consequences correct?

Consequences? If they were posted here in this thread? Maybe.

Emailing? Good luck with that. I'm not even sure what law that would be violating in the first place. You pose naked for a camera and knowingly let someone else have those pictures (boyfriend or not) then you just lost the right to privacy.

Could be wrong but that's my understanding of it.

Pretty much accurate. The extent of the law would be having them taken down and the site owner (who isn't actually Mike) being sent a letter about it, at the most. E-mail, nothing they could do.
This is taking into account that the pictures were taken willingly and she was over 18.
Actually, the fact that there are members on here under 18 and there is no waiver saying must be 18 to view forum would be easier to do something about then the pictures themselves.